Life threw me a hard choice today. I had to break up with my boyfriend, My new job and studies at university did not alow me time to see my boyfriend so i knew it was only fare of me to let him go... it feels like everytime something good comes in to my life it goes away in the next few months or so. Have any of you experenced someing similar? (and yes for thoes wondering i am gay) if any of you have any kind words, Please send them my way i could use them.

Thank you,

-BlajBlaj

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Blajblaj wrote to All <=-

Life threw me a hard choice today. I had to break up with my
boyfriend, My new job and studies at university did not alow me
time to see my boyfriend so i knew it was only fare of me to let
him go... it feels like everytime something good comes in to my
life it goes away in the next few months or so. Have any of you
experenced someing similar? (and yes for thoes wondering i am
gay) if any of you have any kind words, Please send them my way i
could use them.

I suggest eating Jolly Ranchers.

Lots of them.


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On 21 Jan 2019, Dan Clough said the following...

Blajblaj wrote to All <=-

Life threw me a hard choice today. I had to break up with my boyfriend, My new job and studies at university did not alow me

I suggest eating Jolly Ranchers.

Or sour worms. I always go to sour worms when I'm down.

Mick Manning

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Dan Clough to Blajblaj on Mon Jan 21 2019 04:42 pm

Blajblaj wrote to All <=-

i never thought that i would be getting reddit style responces on bbs...
lol ill try that.

-BlajBlaj

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Mickey to Dan Clough on Mon Jan 21 2019 09:09 pm

On 21 Jan 2019, Dan Clough said the following...

thanks ill give that a go

-BlajBlaj

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On 1/21/2019 12:03 AM, BLAJBLAJ wrote to ALL:

Life threw me a hard choice today. I had to break up with my boyfriend,

My new

job and studies at university did not alow me time to see my boyfriend so i knew it was only fare of me to let him go... it feels like everytime

something

good comes in to my life it goes away in the next few months or so. Have

any of

you experenced someing similar? (and yes for thoes wondering i am gay)

if any

of you have any kind words, Please send them my way i could use them.

Hope you find someone worthy after your done with your studies. I never
really had a relationship, but your studies is something very valuable and would be hard to repeat if you don't do it right.
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On 01-23-19 10:42, MATTHEW MUNSON wrote to BLAJBLAJ <=-

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On 1/21/2019 12:03 AM, BLAJBLAJ wrote to ALL:

Life threw me a hard choice today. I had to break up with my boyfriend,

My new

job and studies at university did not alow me time to see my boyfriend so i knew it was only fare of me to let him go... it feels like everytime

something

good comes in to my life it goes away in the next few months or so. Have

any of

you experenced someing similar? (and yes for thoes wondering i am gay)

if any

of you have any kind words, Please send them my way i could use them.

Hope you find someone worthy after your done with your studies. I never really had a relationship, but your studies is something very valuable
and would be hard to repeat if you don't do it right.

It's disappointing when you have to make those choices. They're never easy, and the right choice is different for different people. I've been lucky in relationships, only had 2, but both long lasting. The first was for almost 14 years, until he passed away, and the second is currently over 13 years, and this time, we were able to get married last year. :)


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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to MATTHEW MUNSON on Fri Jan 25 2019 09:11 am

It's disappointing when you have to make those choices. They're never easy, and the right choice is different for different people. I've been lucky in relationships, only had 2, but both long lasting. The first was for almost 14 years, until he passed away, and the second is currently over 13 years, and this time, we were able to get married last year. :)

Congratulations, mazel tov and all that :)


I met my wife at a carnival when we were 15. we got married at 20. I'm so lucky she puts up with my shit, my expensive hobbies (like ice fishing, I must have dropped $1000 in the past month or so on gear), and my prattling about things that she has no interest in even after all this time.

DaiTengu

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to MATTHEW MUNSON on Fri Jan 25 2019 09:11 am

Are You also gay?
-BlajBlaj

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On 01-25-19 09:40, DaiTengu wrote to Vk3jed <=-

Congratulations, mazel tov and all that :)

Thanks. :)

I met my wife at a carnival when we were 15. we got married at 20. I'm
so lucky she puts up with my shit, my expensive hobbies (like ice
fishing, I must have dropped $1000 in the past month or so on gear),
and my prattling about things that she has no interest in even after
all this time.

Nice. :) And yeah hobbies can be like that. We each have our own persuits. Some overlap like SF/fantasy and movies, and an interest in science, but others are quite different. I'm heavily involved in sport, which keeps me out fo at least part of almost every weekend, plus training, etc, and it costs me a fair bit to keep going. :)

He's a lot more craft oriented, and also spends a lot of time reading. But all is good. :)


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Life threw me a hard choice today. I had to break up with my boyfriend, My new job and studies at university did not alow me time to see my boyfriend so i knew it was only fare of me to let him go... it feels like everytime something good comes in to my life it goes away in the next few months or so. Have any of you experenced someing similar? (and yes for thoes wondering i am gay) if any of you have any kind words, Please send them my way i could use them.

One of the toughest things I've had to do was say goodbye to a girl a loved, but couldn't stand to be around. I gave her 5 years, all I got was a hurt back, a rusty old pick up, and broke. She used me. I told her I needed her to get at least a part time job to help with her part of the bills, she refused. When she'd ask for something, she'd get triggered and blow up when I told her there was no money for it. Towards the end, she was so highly aggressive, I had a hard time sleeping because I thought I'd wake up dead. Ah, but I still love her to this day. It hurts, but I could not and cannot allow that in my life. It's not healthy.

There are others, but I won't go into them now. These decisions are never easy. Take care of yourself. Who knows, when you're done with your studies, maybe he'll still be there.

Fireball

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On 01-27-19 04:25, Blajblaj wrote to Vk3jed <=-

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to MATTHEW MUNSON on Fri Jan 25 2019 09:11 am

Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.


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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to Blajblaj on Tue Jan 29 2019 03:53 pm

Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

What part is that?


þdmxrobþ BBSing from St. Louis, MO since 1988

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Dmxrob to Vk3jed on Tue Jan 29 2019 06:20 pm

Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to Blajblaj on Tue Jan 29 2019 03:53 pm

Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

What part is that?

still have paul casey's nude photo etched into my brain
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On 01-29-19 18:20, Dmxrob wrote to Vk3jed <=-

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to Blajblaj on Tue Jan 29 2019 03:53 pm

Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

What part is that?

The gay BBS scene. Used to be some good nets back in the day.


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Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

Yea, I remember telneting to Waka Waka BBS once. that was interesting.


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What part is that?

still have paul casey's nude photo etched into my brain

Yea, he was an older dude who was dependent on his scooter because he
lacked mobility.

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: MATTHEW MUNSON to VK3JED on Wed Jan 30 2019 08:34 am

Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

Yea, I remember telneting to Waka Waka BBS once. that was interesting.

paul asked for your measurements in the new user app
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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: MATTHEW MUNSON to MRO on Wed Jan 30 2019 08:35 am

What part is that?

still have paul casey's nude photo etched into my brain

Yea, he was an older dude who was dependent on his scooter because he
lacked mobility.

because he was really obese
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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: MATTHEW MUNSON to VK3JED on Wed Jan 30 2019 08:34 am

Yea, I remember telneting to Waka Waka BBS once. that was interesting.

Yup, I logged on too. Once. :-)

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Vk3jed wrote to Dmxrob <=-

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

What part is that?

The gay BBS scene. Used to be some good nets back in the day.

San Francisco had a big alt.scene back in the '90s. Some of it made it's
way to NIRVANAnet, which had a thriving sex discussion board. I wish I'd
saved my backup tapes from the peak years; all I have is a CD-R from the
last week of the BBS, long after the scene had dried up.



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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Digital Man to MATTHEW MUNSON on Thu Jan 31 2019 12:51 am

Yea, I remember telneting to Waka Waka BBS once. that was interesting.

Yup, I logged on too. Once. :-)

I remember logging onto rusty & eddies not long before the big raid:)
I did not dload or upload anything thankfully.

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On 01-30-19 08:34, MATTHEW MUNSON wrote to VK3JED <=-

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Are You also gay?

Yes, no big secret around here. :) Now that's another part of the 90s BBS scene that sadly hasn't come back.

Yea, I remember telneting to Waka Waka BBS once. that was interesting.

I don't remember that BBS. One of the big international gay networks back then was STUDSnet, which was a hybrid QWK/FTN network (used FTN in this part of the world). It closed down when the hosting BBS converted to a web forum in the late 1990s. :(


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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: Vk3jed to MATTHEW MUNSON on Fri Feb 01 2019 08:17 pm

... If it walks out of your refrigerator, let it go.

Why do I hear Sting singing that?

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Re: Re: Heartbreak
By: poindexter FORTRAN to Vk3jed on Fri Feb 01 2019 08:05 am

... If it walks out of your refrigerator, let it go.

Why do I hear Sting singing that?

It's perhaps somewhat reminiscent of the Sting & the Police song "If You Love Somebody, Set Them Free"..

Nightfox

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On 01-31-19 09:20, poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Vk3jed <=-

The gay BBS scene. Used to be some good nets back in the day.

San Francisco had a big alt.scene back in the '90s. Some of it made
it's way to NIRVANAnet, which had a thriving sex discussion board. I
wish I'd saved my backup tapes from the peak years; all I have is a
CD-R from the last week of the BBS, long after the scene had dried up.

Back in the day, one of the big international gay networks was StudsNet, which I think was based in SF (otherwise somewhere else on the US west coast). It was distributed among a few local boards around Melbourne.

The inisial incarnation of The Bridge was quite unique in local BBSs. Firstly, it brought the 2 major local gay nets together in one place. Secondly, it was the first board to host gay content, while remaining a general messaging BBS. Users had to request the gay access, which could be done at any time, whether on initial application, or by messaging the sysops at any time after that.


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On 02-01-19 08:05, poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Vk3jed <=-

... If it walks out of your refrigerator, let it go.

Why do I hear Sting singing that?

Hahaha. :D


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