• Social Media mess

    From sam@VERT/TTLYNERD to All on Tue Mar 5 16:12:33 2019
    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead everything else I've tried has been rather meh, including Mewe and Diaspora. Anywhoo just curious. Laters

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to sam on Tue Mar 5 15:50:46 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to All on Tue Mar 05 2019 04:12 pm

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead everything else I've tried has been rather meh, including Mewe and Diaspora. Anywhoo just curious. Laters

    I've used Facebook for quite a while. I gave Google+ a try, but I didn't know many people who use it, and it didn't really seem to offer anything unique that Facebook didn't already offer. I imagine that's probably why Google decided to drop it (I guess they couldn't think of any cool new feature to add to it).

    I created an Instagram account a while ago, but I don't use it a whole lot. One reason is I don't know many people using it, and another is that it seems to only allow you to post photos with a comment (whereas someting like Facebook lets you post anything you want), so I feel like Instagram is a bit restrictive. I keep hearing Instagram is all the rage these days and a lot of poeple are using it, but I often want to post things other than photos.

    I haven't heard of Mewe or Diaspora.

    Nightfox

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  • From Jagossel@VERT/DISCREAL to sam on Tue Mar 5 20:55:22 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to All on Tue Mar 05 2019 04:12 pm

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead everything else I've tried has been rather meh, including Mewe and Diaspora. Anywhoo just curious. Laters

    Personally, I use Twitter for tech-related things and LinkedIn for my career related things. I participate in BBS conferences for personal things.

    Got an image that I have to keep up with. :)

    -jag
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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to sam on Tue Mar 5 22:51:10 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to All on Tue Mar 05 2019 04:12 pm

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead everything

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's all the "social media" I need.

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  • From Lmorchard@VERT/DECAFBAD to sam on Wed Mar 6 11:03:18 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to All on Tue Mar 05 2019 04:12 pm

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use?

    I've got accounts on just about everything, though I tend to only check Facebook weekly and I'm trying to wean off Twitter.

    Lately, I spend more time on toot.cafe, which is a Mastodon instance. If you haven't heard of it, that's kind of a distributed Twitter. Many instances all sharing messages between each other in real time. Or maybe like FidoNET and DOVENet but with constant web exchanges rather than periodic packets.

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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to Dmxrob on Wed Mar 6 08:38:00 2019
    Dmxrob wrote to sam <=-

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead everything

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's
    all the "social media" I need.

    Right on. I have gotten to where I even dislike the term "social
    media". I admit to occasionally checking my Facebook, but my
    preferred social activities are also generally outside. My
    favorite is attending professional minor-league hockey games with
    a few thousand of my closest friends. :)



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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Lmorchard on Wed Mar 6 12:58:43 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Lmorchard to sam on Wed Mar 06 2019 11:03 am

    I've got accounts on just about everything, though I tend to only check Facebook weekly and I'm trying to wean off Twitter.

    I created a Twitter account about 9 years ago, but I've never used it much. I never really saw the appeal. I haven't seen much point in making posts that are limited to 140 characters (I've heard they recently increased it to 240 or something). I don't know many people who use Twitter anyway, so I wouldn't have many followers there, and I'm not really following anyone else on Twitter.

    Nightfox

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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to All on Wed Mar 6 23:59:51 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Lmorchard on Wed Mar 06 2019 12:58 pm

    I use Twitter to follow chicks and keep tabs on where I can find them on the net.

    Hustler

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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Dmxrob on Wed Mar 6 19:37:54 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to sam on Tue Mar 05 2019 10:51 pm

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's all the "social media" I need.


    fuck that. that would require leaving the house
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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Dan Clough on Thu Mar 7 09:45:00 2019
    On 03-06-19 08:38, Dan Clough wrote to Dmxrob <=-

    Right on. I have gotten to where I even dislike the term "social
    media". I admit to occasionally checking my Facebook, but my

    I tend to use social media to support real world social activities a lot. Mostly Facebook, but some others as well. Twitter I find just a bunch of noise, mostly not worth my time (haven't used it in 10 years or so, except for sending automated status messages).

    preferred social activities are also generally outside. My
    favorite is attending professional minor-league hockey games with
    a few thousand of my closest friends. :)

    Oh, my social activities are more about _doing_ things with people, about to head out for coffee with some locals actually. :) As for sport, why watch when I can _do_ it with a few hundred or more people! Got a major 3 day sporting event this weekend, then after that, state and national level track meets. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Thu Mar 7 09:46:00 2019
    On 03-06-19 12:58, Nightfox wrote to Lmorchard <=-

    I created a Twitter account about 9 years ago, but I've never used it much. I never really saw the appeal. I haven't seen much point in
    making posts that are limited to 140 characters (I've heard they
    recently increased it to 240 or something). I don't know many people
    who use Twitter anyway, so I wouldn't have many followers there, and
    I'm not really following anyone else on Twitter.

    I just found much of Twitter inane, whether you followed people or hashtags.


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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to Vk3jed on Thu Mar 7 07:18:00 2019
    Vk3jed wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    preferred social activities are also generally outside. My
    favorite is attending professional minor-league hockey games with
    a few thousand of my closest friends. :)

    Oh, my social activities are more about _doing_ things with
    people, about to head out for coffee with some locals actually.

    Well, that's not really any different than going to a hockey game
    with a few friends, is it? Still _doing_ something.

    :) As for sport, why watch when I can _do_ it with a few hundred
    or more people! Got a major 3 day sporting event this weekend,
    then after that, state and national level track meets. :)

    I used to run some track events when I was younger, and agree that
    it's a blast! Indeed it is nice to _do_ it if you can, but my
    days of _playing_ hockey are mostly behind me, so I do the next
    best thing - watch professionals do it. :)




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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Vk3jed on Thu Mar 7 09:53:36 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to Nightfox on Thu Mar 07 2019 09:46 am

    I just found much of Twitter inane, whether you followed people or hashtags.

    I think hashtags look silly too. There should be a better way of tagging your messages without adding silly-looking hashtags to the message itself. Sometimes I even see people basically #talking #in #hashtags in their message rather than adding the tags at the bottom.

    Nightfox

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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Dan Clough on Thu Mar 7 11:22:19 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dan Clough to Dmxrob on Wed Mar 06 2019 08:38 am

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's
    all the "social media" I need.

    Right on. I have gotten to where I even dislike the term "social
    media". I admit to occasionally checking my Facebook, but my
    preferred social activities are also generally outside. My
    favorite is attending professional minor-league hockey games with
    a few thousand of my closest friends. :)

    :-) My favorite is going to "The Muny" in St. Louis, an experience in itself -- Broadway quality shows done under the stars!

    It's good to see people weaning themselves off the social media bandwagon. I think it has harmed society in general far more than it has helped.


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  • From DaiTengu@VERT/ENSEMBLE to Hustler on Thu Mar 7 12:57:47 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to All on Wed Mar 06 2019 11:59 pm

    I use Twitter to follow chicks and keep tabs on where I can find them on the net.

    So, what' you're saying is that there's tons of pictures of your junk floating around that no one asked for, and no one wants to see.

    DaiTengu

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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to Dmxrob on Thu Mar 7 18:26:00 2019
    Dmxrob wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's
    all the "social media" I need.

    Right on. I have gotten to where I even dislike the term "social
    media". I admit to occasionally checking my Facebook, but my
    preferred social activities are also generally outside. My
    favorite is attending professional minor-league hockey games with
    a few thousand of my closest friends. :)

    :-) My favorite is going to "The Muny" in St. Louis, an
    experience in itself -- Broadway quality shows done under the
    stars!

    Wow, that sounds awesome!

    It's good to see people weaning themselves off the social media
    bandwagon. I think it has harmed society in general far more
    than it has helped.

    I agree. It saddens me to walk through a mall, airport, etc, and
    see *SO* *MANY* people (mostly younger/millenial types, but not
    all) walking along like zombies with their faces glued to a phone
    screen. Just so pathetic. What really sucks is that I don't see
    that changing any time soon.



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  • From sam@VERT/TTLYNERD to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 8 10:09:19 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to All on Tue Mar 05 2019 04:12 pm

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead everything

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's all the "social media" I need.


    Tend to agree, getting heavily into scouts with my son and daughter has
    gotten our entire family more involved with some great people and outdoor activities. This is definitely getting is out of the house more which I
    love!

    I'm not looking at social media as a place to bury my face for hours a day
    as I see so many do. For me I just like connecting with like minded people whether local or far off, and to be honest most of my family or close
    friends I don't have allot in common with.

    My goal for now is to stick to the boards and hopefully get more involved socially and technically as time allows. Problem is I've been saying this
    for a better part of 20 years :-D Hopefully things are finally getting
    settled down where I can invest some time in projects I want to work on.

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  • From sam@VERT/TTLYNERD to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 8 10:17:38 2019
    Dmxrob wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    I agree. It saddens me to walk through a mall, airport, etc, and
    see *SO* *MANY* people (mostly younger/millenial types, but not
    all) walking along like zombies with their faces glued to a phone
    screen. Just so pathetic. What really sucks is that I don't see
    that changing any time soon.

    Totally agree, this is such a pet peeve of mine, and I agree until parents
    quit giving their kids phones this won't change. Kids aren't learning
    social skills, I'd honestly rather a kid sit at a table in a restaurant
    being a toot or interacting with parents then having their face glued to a phone or tablet. Was at a local restaurant few weeks ago, looked like 3-4 families were having dinner, and all their kids were at a table hear by, 7 kids, all zombies with their faces stuck to a screen. One girl was reading
    a book, but that's it. WTF is happening to society?????

    Social Media I think was the spark that made so many people get addicted to technology a decade ago, and how their passing this to their kids. The
    itch social media scratches for me is talking to like minded people since
    few if any people I know offline like the same crap I do. But those people
    who follow like 500 people on facebook is just nuts!!!! I think I have 30,
    and many of those are muted since their family members who just post
    political crap.

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to sam on Fri Mar 8 10:17:16 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 08 2019 10:17 am

    phone or tablet. Was at a local restaurant few weeks ago, looked like 3-4 families were having dinner, and all their kids were at a table hear by, 7 kids, all zombies with their faces stuck to a screen. One girl was reading a book, but that's it. WTF is happening to society?????

    Social Media I think was the spark that made so many people get addicted to technology a decade ago, and how their passing this to their kids. The itch social media scratches for me is talking to like minded people since few if any people I know offline like the same crap I do. But those people who follow like 500 people on facebook is just nuts!!!! I think I have 30, and many of those are muted since their family members who just post political crap.

    Yeah, it's a bit weird to see people out with other people but staring at their phones all the time. I might look at that kind of stuff at home, but I tend to limit my use of that stuff when I'm out - because, you know, I have other things to do when I'm out with people.

    This may be just the latest version of an old argument though. 20 or 30+ years ago, I remember hearing people being concerned about their kids spending too much time playing video games or watching TV instead of playing outside, etc.. Maybe this is just the latest tech trend.

    Nightfox

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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 8 12:35:30 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dan Clough to Dmxrob on Thu Mar 07 2019 06:26 pm

    I agree. It saddens me to walk through a mall, airport, etc, and
    see *SO* *MANY* people (mostly younger/millenial types, but not
    all) walking along like zombies with their faces glued to a phone
    screen. Just so pathetic. What really sucks is that I don't see
    that changing any time soon.


    It will change when it becomes socially unacceptable again. I absolutely refuse to have any type of conversation, dinner, meeting, etc. with a person who has their phone out. If that phone is more important than me, then you can have the phone as I have other things to attend to.

    I've stopped using Twitter and all that nonsense. I only post vacation pictures on Facebook. I have a blog that I update now and then, but I don't consider that social media as much as I do that it is a journal.

    My #1 pet peeve - people posting stuff to Facebook that they shouldn't be discussing in a public forum. My #2 pet peeve - people begging for money, likes, shares on Facebook. "I bet this post won't get even one share" nonsense. How lonely and pathetic must your life be that you post such nonsense?


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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to sam on Fri Mar 8 12:37:34 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 08 2019 10:09 am

    I go outside, make friends, meet friends, attend events. That's all the "social media" I need.

    Tend to agree, getting heavily into scouts with my son and daughter has gotten our entire family more involved with some great people and outdoor activities. This is definitely getting is out of the house more which I love!

    That is awesome - and you will be a better person for it, plus you will find that your life just keeps opening up in a multitude of ways. It is amazing what happens once you start engaging in real life. It's like a domino effect!

    My goal for now is to stick to the boards and hopefully get more involved socially and technically as time allows. Problem is I've been saying this

    If it is something you enjoy - then go for it. I'm the same way, I love these micro-communities that boards provide. This is all the social networking I need!


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to sam on Fri Mar 8 17:26:21 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: sam to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 08 2019 10:17 am

    Totally agree, this is such a pet peeve of mine, and I agree until parents quit giving their kids phones this won't change. Kids aren't learning social skills, I'd honestly rather a kid sit at a table in a restaurant being a toot or interacting with parents then having their face glued to a phone or tablet.

    It's tempting, and it's a slippery slope. You're tired, stressed, and your kid is in need of attention. Here's mommy's/daddy's phone...

    Seeing kids under 10 with *their* *own* *phones* boggles my mind. My 9
    year-old daughter has friends with phones.

    I've got an old tablet waiting for her, it's going to be to watch movies on car rides and to read Kindle books - that'll be it.

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Nightfox on Fri Mar 8 17:27:24 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to sam on Fri Mar 08 2019 10:17 am

    This may be just the latest version of an old argument though. 20 or 30+ years ago, I remember hearing people being concerned about their kids spending too much time playing video games or watching TV instead of playing outside, etc.. Maybe this is just the latest tech trend.


    Same sh*t, different day - except now the stakes are higher and the potential for habituation is greater.

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 8 17:28:23 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 08 2019 12:35 pm

    It will change when it becomes socially unacceptable again. I absolutely refuse to have any type of conversation, dinner, meeting, etc. with a person who has their phone out. If that phone is more important than me, then you can have the phone as I have other things to attend to.

    I couldn't be single and 20 again. I see so many people on dates with their phone out - and to your point, if you're phone's out, it's more important than what's going on here.

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  • From Gamgee@VERT/PALANT to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 8 18:35:00 2019
    Dmxrob wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    I agree. It saddens me to walk through a mall, airport, etc, and
    see *SO* *MANY* people (mostly younger/millenial types, but not
    all) walking along like zombies with their faces glued to a phone
    screen. Just so pathetic. What really sucks is that I don't see
    that changing any time soon.

    It will change when it becomes socially unacceptable again. I
    absolutely refuse to have any type of conversation, dinner,
    meeting, etc. with a person who has their phone out. If that
    phone is more important than me, then you can have the phone as I
    have other things to attend to.

    I hope you're right, and I hope it becomes unacceptable soon.
    Agreed on that kind of behavior, it's VERY rude.

    I've stopped using Twitter and all that nonsense. I only post
    vacation pictures on Facebook. I have a blog that I update now
    and then, but I don't consider that social media as much as I do
    that it is a journal.

    I look at FB and quite rarely post anything. Mostly it helps me
    keep up with kids/family.

    My #1 pet peeve - people posting stuff to Facebook that they
    shouldn't be discussing in a public forum. My #2 pet peeve -
    people begging for money, likes, shares on Facebook. "I bet this
    post won't get even one share" nonsense. How lonely and pathetic
    must your life be that you post such nonsense?

    No doubt. Another one that ticks me off is when somebody posts
    something like: "So pissed off right now!" with no explanation as
    to why, with the expectation that everyone will jump in and say
    "Oh what's the matter sweetie?" or similar. Like begging for
    attention in the most pathetic manner possible. Arrrggghhhh!

    So I come back to the BBS to calm down. :)




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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to poindexter FORTRAN on Fri Mar 8 20:49:24 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 08 2019 05:28 pm

    I couldn't be single and 20 again. I see so many people on dates with their phone out - and to your point, if you're phone's out, it's more important than what's going on here.

    People always ask "Wouldn't you like to be younger again?" Nope! I wouldn't give up growing up in the late 70s through early 90s for anything.

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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Gamgee on Fri Mar 8 20:51:21 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Gamgee to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 08 2019 06:35 pm

    No doubt. Another one that ticks me off is when somebody posts
    something like: "So pissed off right now!" with no explanation as
    to why, with the expectation that everyone will jump in and say
    "Oh what's the matter sweetie?" or similar. Like begging for
    attention in the most pathetic manner possible. Arrrggghhhh!

    That's exactly what it is. Everyone wants attention. Wants to be the "star" of their own reality show. It's just plain pathetic. Go out, do something with your life, be remembered as the guy that helped kids learn to read, or the lady that volunteered to deliver meals for the elderly. Get a REAL life with REAL satisfaction, not his fake "Like" and "look at me, I am a star" nonsense.


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  • From Warp 4@VERT/OTHETAX to Gamgee on Fri Mar 8 23:13:45 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Gamgee to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 08 2019 06:35 pm

    No doubt. Another one that ticks me off is when somebody posts
    something like: "So pissed off right now!" with no explanation as
    to why, with the expectation that everyone will jump in and say
    "Oh what's the matter sweetie?" or similar. Like begging for
    attention in the most pathetic manner possible. Arrrggghhhh!

    So I come back to the BBS to calm down. :)

    Yeah, this is pretty much what I do, too.

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 8 23:20:32 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to poindexter FORTRAN on Fri Mar 08 2019 08:49 pm

    People always ask "Wouldn't you like to be younger again?" Nope! I wouldn't give up growing up in the late 70s through early 90s for anything.

    The key word might be "again". You still would have grown up in that time, but how about being younger again now?

    Nightfox

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  • From DaiTengu@VERT/ENSEMBLE to Gamgee on Sat Mar 9 09:03:30 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Gamgee to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 08 2019 06:35 pm

    No doubt. Another one that ticks me off is when somebody posts
    something like: "So pissed off right now!" with no explanation as
    to why, with the expectation that everyone will jump in and say
    "Oh what's the matter sweetie?" or similar. Like begging for
    attention in the most pathetic manner possible. Arrrggghhhh!

    The conversation usually goes like this:

    "I'm So <insert negative emotion here> right now!"

    Someone replies with: "What's wrong?"

    And the person then says, "I don't want to talk about it!"


    I dubbed it "Vaguebooking"

    DaiTengu

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  • From Kevin@VERT/MMN to SAM on Sat Mar 9 12:17:00 2019
    On 05/03/2019 16:12, SAM wrote to ALL:

    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and now that it's dead
    everything else
    I've tried has been rather meh, including Mewe and Diaspora. Anywhoo just curious. Laters

    Currently I'm more full time on a Mastodon instance run at sdf.org, and
    still on facebook but I'm trying to move off to a friendi.ca install at libranet.de.

    I do also have a twitter account that I started in the good old days, I
    only really check it when I get notifications that somebody is trying to
    h4x0r it (it's @mmn so people be trying on the regular for a three letter username).
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  • From Digital Man@VERT to Hustler on Sat Mar 9 14:46:39 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to All on Wed Mar 06 2019 11:59 pm

    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Lmorchard on Wed Mar 06 2019 12:58 pm

    I use Twitter to follow chicks and keep tabs on where I can find them on the net.

    Well, that's honesty. :-)

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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to DaiTengu on Sat Mar 9 14:54:00 2019
    DaiTengu wrote to Gamgee <=-

    No doubt. Another one that ticks me off is when somebody posts
    something like: "So pissed off right now!" with no explanation as
    to why, with the expectation that everyone will jump in and say
    "Oh what's the matter sweetie?" or similar. Like begging for
    attention in the most pathetic manner possible. Arrrggghhhh!

    The conversation usually goes like this:

    "I'm So <insert negative emotion here> right now!"

    Someone replies with: "What's wrong?"

    And the person then says, "I don't want to talk about it!"

    Haha, yep! Or maybe "All good now, I'm over it." (total elapsed
    time since original post = 17 minutes).

    I dubbed it "Vaguebooking"

    Not bad!



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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to poindexter FORTRAN on Sat Mar 9 21:36:54 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to sam on Fri Mar 08 2019 05:26 pm

    Seeing kids under 10 with *their* *own* *phones* boggles my mind. My 9 year-old daughter has friends with phones.


    my gf's daughter has had cellphones since she was 10. she has broken like 6 iphones. she only cracked the screen on one android, though.

    we have had problems with her catfishing older men and other nasty stuff.
    kids are being exposed to shit too young.
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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to poindexter FORTRAN on Sat Mar 9 21:37:16 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Dmxrob on Fri Mar 08 2019 05:28 pm

    I couldn't be single and 20 again. I see so many people on dates with their phone out - and to your point, if you're phone's out, it's more important than what's going on here.



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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to MRO on Sat Mar 9 21:28:15 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to poindexter FORTRAN on Sat Mar 09 2019 09:36 pm

    my gf's daughter has had cellphones since she was 10. she has broken like 6 iphones. she only cracked the screen on one android, though.

    we have had problems with her catfishing older men and other nasty stuff. kids are being exposed to shit too young.

    I've always felt like I don't know what young kids really need with a cell phone. But I suppose these days, it can be good for them to be able to get in touch with their parents or vice versa if needed - especially as pay phones are disappearing. I'd think a parent would be able to get an activity-restricted phone for their child if they wanted to. Even just a simple cell phone, rather than a smartphone, that would just allow phone calls and texts.

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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Dan Clough on Sat Mar 9 21:35:00 2019
    On 03-07-19 07:18, Dan Clough wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    Oh, my social activities are more about _doing_ things with
    people, about to head out for coffee with some locals actually.

    Well, that's not really any different than going to a hockey game
    with a few friends, is it? Still _doing_ something.

    Spose, yeah in a sense. :)

    I used to run some track events when I was younger, and agree that
    it's a blast! Indeed it is nice to _do_ it if you can, but my

    Yep, I love it. :)

    days of _playing_ hockey are mostly behind me, so I do the next
    best thing - watch professionals do it. :)

    Fair enough. I still have a lot of time left on the track. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Sat Mar 9 21:36:00 2019
    On 03-07-19 09:53, Nightfox wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I just found much of Twitter inane, whether you followed people or hashtags.

    I think hashtags look silly too. There should be a better way of
    tagging your messages without adding silly-looking hashtags to the
    message itself. Sometimes I even see people basically #talking #in #hashtags in their message rather than adding the tags at the bottom.

    I don't have a problem with #hashtags. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to sam on Sun Mar 10 06:35:00 2019
    On 03-08-19 10:09, sam wrote to Dmxrob <=-

    Tend to agree, getting heavily into scouts with my son and daughter has gotten our entire family more involved with some great people and
    outdoor activities. This is definitely getting is out of the house
    more which I love!

    That's gotta be a good thing. I find the same with my own sporting and community commitments, I'm always out of the house somewhere.

    I'm not looking at social media as a place to bury my face for hours a
    day as I see so many do. For me I just like connecting with like
    minded people whether local or far off, and to be honest most of my
    family or close friends I don't have allot in common with.

    Many of the groups I'm involved with use social media as a means of internal communication, as well as bring in the wider community. Social media has a place, if used well.

    My goal for now is to stick to the boards and hopefully get more
    involved socially and technically as time allows. Problem is I've been saying this for a better part of 20 years :-D Hopefully things are finally getting settled down where I can invest some time in projects I want to work on.

    Hopefully you'll be able to stick around and enjoy. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to sam on Sun Mar 10 06:40:00 2019
    On 03-08-19 10:17, sam wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    ago, looked like 3-4 families were having dinner, and all their kids
    were at a table hear by, 7 kids, all zombies with their faces stuck to
    a screen. One girl was reading a book, but that's it. WTF is
    happening to society?????

    It's got to the point where at our fire brigade competitions, a "no phone" rule has come in. It's informal and policed by peer pressure, but it works. The reason for it was because of the younger generation being distracted by their phones. For me, there's so much going on that the only time I'd use my phone would be to post an update on how things were going.

    Social Media I think was the spark that made so many people get
    addicted to technology a decade ago, and how their passing this to
    their kids. The itch social media scratches for me is talking to like minded people since few if any people I know offline like the same crap
    I do. But those people who follow like 500 people on facebook is just nuts!!!! I think I have 30, and many of those are muted since their family members who just post political crap.

    I spend more time in groups, because I use them like I used BBSs in their heyday, and it's better than web forums (ewww). I'd prefer to message on BBSs, but most people I know aren't there, more of a niche interest nowadays. :(


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Dmxrob on Sun Mar 10 06:45:00 2019
    On 03-08-19 20:49, Dmxrob wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=

    People always ask "Wouldn't you like to be younger again?" Nope! I wouldn't give up growing up in the late 70s through early 90s for anything.

    I think we grew up in a unique transitional era, when the tech was growing alongside us. Old enough to remember what it was like before technology permeated our lives, but young enough to adapt and grow with it. From a childhood without so much as a VCR (meant one had to play outside or read a book for entertainment), to what we have today. I still play outside today, it's called "sport". :D


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Dmxrob on Sun Mar 10 06:46:00 2019
    On 03-08-19 20:51, Dmxrob wrote to Gamgee <=-

    elderly. Get a REAL life with REAL satisfaction, not his fake "Like"
    and "look at me, I am a star" nonsense.

    Agree. People remember you for what you did for others. Sometimes one act of kindness is what gets remembered for life, not some shit posted on Facebook. And it's more satisfying to do something like volunteer.


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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to Nightfox on Sun Mar 10 13:10:25 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to MRO on Sat Mar 09 2019 09:28 pm


    we have had problems with her catfishing older men and other nasty
    stuff. kids are being exposed to shit too young.
    I've always felt like I don't know what young kids really need with a cell phone. But I suppose these days, it can be good for them to be able to get in touch with their parents or vice versa if needed - especially as pay phones are disappearing. I'd think a parent would be able to get an

    The kids will likely meet their spouses on social media. Get over it. I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young and horney. The really young kids just want to be "cool" and be with the "in" crowd which is simply wanting to have friends avoid being lonely.

    That's just my opnion.....I could be wrong.

    HusTler



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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Vk3jed on Sun Mar 10 12:07:37 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to Dmxrob on Sun Mar 10 2019 06:46 am

    Facebook. And it's more satisfying to do something like volunteer.

    Couldn't agree more. It's good for you, good for the organization, and good for society!

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  • From Lestat9@VERT/TEMPLEFL to Digital Man on Sun Mar 10 13:46:42 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Digital Man to Hustler on Sat Mar 09 2019 14:46:39

    I use twitter to do the exact same thing but not just chicks.
    I dont use twitter to sit there and type in my thoughts and opinions on issues since
    it seems most people on twitter are not real people. That kind of makes one consider who exactly are the real people on
    twitter talking to besides "famous" people who are aware they are under a whuite hot l;ight so the censor what they say
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  • From Zazz@VERT/PBSYNC to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 11:02:16 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Nightfox on Sun Mar 10 2019 13:10:25

    The kids will likely meet their spouses on social media. Get over it. I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young and horney. The really young kids just want to be "cool" and be with the "in" crowd which is simply wanting to have friends avoid being lonely.

    That's just my opnion.....I could be wrong.

    HusTler


    I think you are right in your statement about kids. They know no other method of socializing, except through media because it takes no courage there to say things as opposed to telling someone to their face what you feel.

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Vk3jed on Sun Mar 10 08:50:00 2019
    Vk3jed wrote to Dmxrob <=-

    I think we grew up in a unique transitional era, when the tech was
    growing alongside us. Old enough to remember what it was like before technology permeated our lives, but young enough to adapt and grow with it. From a childhood without so much as a VCR (meant one had to play outside or read a book for entertainment), to what we have today. I
    still play outside today, it's called "sport". :D

    I remember when HBO played 4 movies a month, went off the air at 1am, and remember when MTV played music videos...




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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 08:51:00 2019
    Hustler wrote to Nightfox <=-

    The kids will likely meet their spouses on social media. Get over it.
    I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young

    Forget? That's why we started BBSes, get the thing set up and watch the
    ladies beat a path to your door... :)




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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 16:21:31 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Nightfox on Sun Mar 10 2019 01:10 pm

    The kids will likely meet their spouses on social media. Get over it. I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young and horney.


    i havent forgotten. i had a kid at 16yrs old. i know only too well how young and horney they are. it's like walking around with a loaded weapons.

    i'm not so sure meeting a partner on social media is a good idea. i've done it myself.

    i'm not relationship expert, though. one thing i know is those dating sites are just for people who are cheaters and everyone is on the same sites.
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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to Zazz on Sun Mar 10 21:31:39 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Zazz to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 11:02 am

    The kids will likely meet their spouses on social media. Get over it.
    I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young and
    I think you are right in your statement about kids. They know no other method of socializing, except through media because it takes no courage there to say things as opposed to telling someone to their face what you feel.

    Yes and it's no good they are not learning the communication skills needed in the "real world" Last year my daughter asked me for some advice. She wanted to quit her job and asked me if it would be OK to send her boss a text message instead of telllig her in person. I didn't think texting your boss should even be a choice at all, so I had to play it cool not to be a "Mean Dad". I explained to her how "running away" is not the way to handle our problems. This is where our culture is going. But who am I to judge. I'm in front of a computer screen 95 percent of the time. I firmly believe that "people that live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones". That's my 2 cents anyway.

    HusTler

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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to MRO on Sun Mar 10 22:46:50 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 04:21 pm

    I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young and
    horney.


    i havent forgotten. i had a kid at 16yrs old. i know only too well how young and horney they are. it's like walking around with a loaded weapons.

    i'm not so sure meeting a partner on social media is a good idea. i've done it myself.
    i'm not relationship expert, though. one thing i know is those dating sites are just for people who are cheaters and everyone is on the same sites. ---

    Maybe so? I just think people really like to have SEX and that means with anyone at anytime. Thus Dating Sites. These days the girls chase the men down for sex as much as the men chase them. Words like Slut and Tramp don't exist anymore. BTW ..what is a "Slut"?? A girl that sleeps with too many men?? LOL!! Well there's a lot of SLUTS out there boys and girls. Just be sure to use protection. I was brought up to believe I should Marry a virgin and only a virgin (Nice girl). Man was I born in the wrong era. That's just delusional and VERY unfair to the ladies I might add.

    That's just my opinion .... I could be wrong.

    HusTler

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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 19:13:44 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to MRO on Sun Mar 10 2019 10:46 pm

    i havent forgotten. i had a kid at 16yrs old. i know only too well how young and horney they are. it's like walking around with a loaded weapons.

    i'm not so sure meeting a partner on social media is a good idea. i've done it myself.
    i'm not relationship expert, though. one thing i know is those dating sites are just for people who are cheaters and everyone is on the same sites. ---

    Maybe so? I just think people really like to have SEX and that means with anyone at anytime. Thus Dating Sites. These days the girls chase the men

    i think a lot of these people are confused and crazy. on the dating sites i think there's a lot of women who are serial daters. they want a free meal and a sugar daddy. the guys are usually in relationships and cheating. it's basically prostitution.

    down for sex as much as the men chase them. Words like Slut and Tramp don't exist anymore. BTW ..what is a "Slut"?? A girl that sleeps with too many men?? LOL!! Well there's a lot of SLUTS out there boys and girls. Just be

    now kids are brought up to have gender identity disorders and it's okay with society.
    and only a virgin (Nice girl). Man was I born in the wrong era. That's just delusional and VERY unfair to the ladies I might add.

    if both parties were virgins, i dont see a problem with that. people put way too much importance into sex and sexuality and what their sexual orientation is. everyone has to know. if it's not affecting me i dont wanna hear it.

    that being said, i have been having unprotected sex with strippers, but i think i have an immunity to the aids virus.
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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to MRO on Mon Mar 11 01:03:17 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 07:13 pm

    i think there's a lot of women who are serial daters. they want a free meal and a sugar daddy. the guys are usually in relationships and cheating. it's basically prostitution.
    orientation is. everyone has to know. if it's not affecting me i dont wanna hear it.
    that being said, i have been having unprotected sex with strippers, but i think i have an immunity to the aids virus.

    Male or female strippers? Or both? I'm SO Confused!

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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Dmxrob on Mon Mar 11 17:00:00 2019
    On 03-10-19 12:07, Dmxrob wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    Facebook. And it's more satisfying to do something like volunteer.

    Couldn't agree more. It's good for you, good for the organization, and good for society!

    Yep. For some future plans, I wanted to connect more closely with the local Parkrun. This time of year, running 5k doesn't fit into my training (it will over winter during cross country season), but no biggie. I took up volunteering and I've been having a ball. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 17:02:00 2019
    On 03-10-19 08:50, poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I remember when HBO played 4 movies a month, went off the air at 1am,
    and remember when MTV played music videos...

    I remember when all TV stations closed for the night around midnight. MTV didn't exist here, but instead, we had Countdown, a music show that featured live performances and music news and reviews. It was the must watch show for any pop music fans and launched many Australian bands in the 70s and 80s. :) MTV and its ilk killed off Countdown. :(


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 23:56:22 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Zazz on Sun Mar 10 2019 09:31 pm

    Yes and it's no good they are not learning the communication skills needed in the "real world" Last year my daughter asked me for some advice. She wanted to quit her job and asked me if it would be OK to send her boss a text message instead of telllig her in person. I didn't think texting your boss should even be a choice at all, so I had to play it cool not to be a "Mean Dad". I explained to her how "running away" is not the way to handle our problems. This is where our culture is going. But who am I to judge.


    That just means that teaching our kids how to interact and communicate effectively will put them heads and shoulders above the rest. The bar is low these days.

    I've taught my son that the people who make the choices are often from a different generation. They'll expect people who can leave clear, concise voice mail messages. People that have a voicemail greeting in their voice. People who expect an email instead of a text - and emails are spell and grammar checked.

    That you have to make them say no. Never count yourself out.

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  • From Brokenmind@VERT/TIABBS to Zazz on Mon Mar 11 10:03:12 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Zazz to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 11:02 am

    I think you are right in your statement about kids. They know no other method of socializing, except through media because it takes no courage there to say things as opposed to telling someone to their face what you feel.
    I really agree with your statement it also allows them not to think about the fact that it's a real person with real feelings on the other end

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 10:09:47 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Nightfox on Sun Mar 10 2019 01:10 pm

    I've always felt like I don't know what young kids really need with
    a cell phone. But I suppose these days, it can be good for them to
    be able to get in touch with their parents or vice versa if needed
    - especially as pay phones are disappearing. I'd think a parent
    would be able to get an

    The kids will likely meet their spouses on social media. Get over it. I think some of you old farts forget what's it's like to be young and horney. The really young kids just want to be "cool" and be with the "in" crowd which is simply wanting to have friends avoid being lonely.

    "Old farts"? How old do you think I am? I grew up in the 80s and 90s and use social media myself, and I met my wife on a dating site. I don't mind if kids use social media, but these days parents also have to try to protect their kids because there are a lot of creeps out there. And I said "young kids", as in around the 9 or 10 age range which I think someone mentioned. Yeah, if a 16 year old wants a smartphone then I don't really see a problem with that.

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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 12:08:55 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to MRO on Sun Mar 10 2019 10:46 pm

    Maybe so? I just think people really like to have SEX and that means with anyone at anytime. Thus Dating Sites. These days the girls chase the men down for sex as much as the men chase them. Words like Slut and Tramp don't

    With all the STD's and AIDS still being a very real thing, it is scary to think people are so promiscuous nowadays.




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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to Vk3jed on Mon Mar 11 18:16:36 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 2019 05:02 pm

    q
    I remember when HBO played 4 movies a month, went off the air at
    1am, and remember when MTV played music videos...
    I remember when all TV stations closed for the night around midnight. MTV

    I remember when they went off the air the station would play the national anthem with a waving flag.

    Hustler

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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to Nightfox on Mon Mar 11 18:26:47 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 2019 10:09 am

    "Old farts"? How old do you think I am? I grew up in the 80s and 90s and

    It wasn't personal Mr Fox. If anything I'm the "old fart". I'm just trying to keep up whats going on with the younger generation. I use FB and Twitter daily. I find it enterntaing. But I don't use it as a place to meet family and friends online. There's a lot of very funny people that tweet very funny stuff. Those are the people I follow. I can see how people meet on any social media. I think the internet is fantastic for the young and "old farts". lol

    HusTler



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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Nightfox on Mon Mar 11 10:57:27 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 2019 10:09 am

    I don't mind
    if kids use social media, but these days parents also have to try to protect their kids because there are a lot of creeps out there.

    Bear in mind, kids don't use social networks the same way you or I would. There's a ton more peer pressure and need for attention on social networks with kids, and that's where it can become harmful.

    Seeing kids posting unrealistic portrayals of their life and relying on a stream of Likes to reinforce your sense of self is troubling. Online bullying is another aspect that's troubling - I see 9 year olds who have learned that if you don't like someone, it's more effective to manipulate other kids into not liking them, either.

    Yeah, if a 16 year old wants a smartphone then I don't really
    see a problem with that.

    I think there need to be limits. We don't allow smart phones at night in bedrooms, and they go in a charger location when we sit down to dinner (and stay there until morning)

    I want my son to learn how to self-regulate, want to get him an app that reports to him how many hours he's on his phone and let him make the choice between Real Life and the internet.

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  • From Hustler@VERT/HAVENS to Dmxrob on Mon Mar 11 18:32:25 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 2019 12:08 pm

    With all the STD's and AIDS still being a very real thing, it is scary to think people are so promiscuous nowadays.

    I dunno. STD's and AIDS never stopped me from behaving like a dog in heat. Especially after a few beers at the "club" dancing with all them babes. ;-)

    HusTler

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  • From Hawkeye@VERT/MASHBBS to sam on Mon Mar 11 16:27:06 2019
    So just curious what social media venue do you all use? Or is DoveNet pretty much it? Admittedly I was a G+ junkie, and >now that it's dead everything else I've tried has been rather meh, including Mewe and Diaspora. Anywhoo just curious. >Laters

    I have to admit I use almost all available social media: facebook, whatsapp, twitter, etc...

    Why? Easy way of communication with retro guys all over the world. But also my family is communicating via facebook messenger or whatsapp.

    But I also use forums, website and this. I guess I'm a junkie, want to try and use all if it helps me in any way to maintain contact.

    HAWKEYE

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 12:33:11 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Mon Mar 11 2019 10:57 am

    Seeing kids posting unrealistic portrayals of their life and relying on a stream of Likes to reinforce your sense of self is troubling. Online bullying is another aspect that's troubling - I see 9 year olds who have learned that if you don't like someone, it's more effective to manipulate other kids into not liking them, either.

    Yeah, that is a problem for sure. And I also remember the Rebecca Black song "Friday" and hearing that a lot of people who didn't like the song said some fairly nasty things to her..

    Yeah, if a 16 year old wants a smartphone then I don't really
    see a problem with that.

    I think there need to be limits. We don't allow smart phones at night in bedrooms, and they go in a charger location when we sit down to dinner (and stay there until morning)

    I want my son to learn how to self-regulate, want to get him an app that reports to him how many hours he's on his phone and let him make the choice between Real Life and the internet.

    I agree, it's good to have some balance and not spend too much time on that stuff.

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Vk3jed on Mon Mar 11 12:42:43 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to sam on Sun Mar 10 2019 06:40 am

    It's got to the point where at our fire brigade competitions, a "no phone" rule has come in. It's informal and policed by peer pressure, but it works. The reason for it was because of the younger generation being distracted by their phones. For me, there's so much going on that the only time I'd use my phone would be to post an update on how things were going.

    It's interesting that there have been more and more rules/laws against using phones in certain situations in recent years. I'll admit I sometimes like being able to check news and social media on a smartphone whlie I'm waiting for something and wouldn't really have anything else to do anyway, but it can be easy to let it creep in and want to check them probably more often than you really need to.

    This morning on the news, I even heard something about someone noticing people checking their phones while riding on skateboards.. Things like driving, walking, etc. need your attention and you really can't take your concentration off of those kinds of things.

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to MRO on Mon Mar 11 12:52:51 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 04:21 pm

    i'm not so sure meeting a partner on social media is a good idea. i've done it myself.

    i'm not relationship expert, though. one thing i know is those dating sites are just for people who are cheaters and everyone is on the same sites.

    That's a fairly negative opinion of those sites.. I'm married now, but I always felt like I'd rather meet someone on one of those sites where you can
    at least see a profile of someone describing some of their interests and who they are, rather than some random person at a bar etc.. But in the end it's probably all the same, anyone you meet anywhere could end up being a cheater or something.

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to MRO on Mon Mar 11 12:55:36 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 07:13 pm

    i think a lot of these people are confused and crazy. on the dating sites i think there's a lot of women who are serial daters. they want a free meal and a sugar daddy. the guys are usually in relationships and cheating. it's basically prostitution.

    How do you know this? From experience, or have you taken a survey or something?

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Vk3jed on Mon Mar 11 12:58:19 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 2019 05:02 pm

    I remember when HBO played 4 movies a month, went off the air at
    1am, and remember when MTV played music videos...

    I remember when all TV stations closed for the night around midnight. MTV

    I don't remember seeing that - When I was a kid, sometimes I used to stay up fairly late during summer vacations and such, and it seems there was something always on TV. But it's interesting that we have increasingly gone to a 24-hour society, probably since more and more people these days have jobs where they'd have to work an evening or night shift. Globalism and interacting with people all over the world probably has something to do with that.

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 13:09:37 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 11:56 pm

    I've taught my son that the people who make the choices are often from a different generation. They'll expect people who can leave clear, concise voice mail messages. People that have a voicemail greeting in their voice. People who expect an email instead of a text - and emails are spell and grammar checked.

    It seems that people don't spell-check or grammar-check their writing as often as they used to. I've been seeing more and more spelling/grammar errors even in print in magazines, on signs, etc.. Often there are things like using an apostrophe for a plural, and lately I've been seeing a lot of instances where people combine 2 words when they shouldn't. I saw a page online that said "It's time to kickass and chew bubblegum, and I'm all out of gum." The single word "kickass" has a bit of a different meaning than the 2 separate words "kick ass". Similarly, I've seen people say something like "I need to setup a new computer" ("setup" and "set up" mean different things). I've also seen web sites that would either say "log into our site" or "login to our site".

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 13:12:32 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Dmxrob on Mon Mar 11 2019 06:32 pm

    With all the STD's and AIDS still being a very real thing, it is
    scary to think people are so promiscuous nowadays.

    I dunno. STD's and AIDS never stopped me from behaving like a dog in heat. Especially after a few beers at the "club" dancing with all them babes. ;-)

    I think there are countries with much higher rates of HIV and other STDs than other countries though.. Makes me wonder why that is, if people in some countries tend to use protection or practice abstinance more than other countries.

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Hawkeye on Mon Mar 11 13:18:25 2019
    Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hawkeye to sam on Mon Mar 11 2019 04:27 pm

    I have to admit I use almost all available social media: facebook, whatsapp, twitter, etc...

    Why? Easy way of communication with retro guys all over the world. But also my family is communicating via facebook messenger or whatsapp.

    But I also use forums, website and this. I guess I'm a junkie, want to try and use all if it helps me in any way to maintain contact.

    Yeah, I think it's mainly about keeping in contact with people, more so than the technology itself.

    I use Facebook to keep in touch with some people, but I also like Facebook as basically a news feed. I've been able to keep up on a lot of news stories from news organizations posting articles on Facebook, and even friends sharing news articles from whatever sources they follow. Also if you like visiting certain restaurants or stores on a regular basis, they usually have a presence on Facebook that you can follow. For a while, there was a restaurant I liked to visit that would have a weekly drawing for a free meal (up to $25) on Facebook. I also found out via Facebook about a local guitar shop that moved to a different location. I know there are other places to find that kind of information, but I suppose Facebook can make it easy by being one place where you can follow multiple businesses.

    Nightfox

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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Hustler on Tue Mar 12 06:33:00 2019
    On 03-11-19 18:16, Hustler wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I remember when they went off the air the station would play the
    national anthem with a waving flag.

    I wasn't up that late often enough to remember. :)


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  • From Zazz@VERT/PBSYNC to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 11:27:24 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Zazz on Sun Mar 10 2019 21:31:39

    in the "real world" Last year my daughter asked me for some advice. She wanted to quit her job and asked me if it would be OK to send her boss a text message instead of telllig her in person. I didn't think texting your boss should even be a choice at all, so I had to play it cool not to be a "Mean Dad". I explained to her how "running away" is not the way to handle our problems. This is where our culture is going. But who am I to judge. I'm in front of a computer screen 95 percent of the time. I firmly believe that "people that live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones". That's my 2 cents anyway.

    HusTler

    Hustler

    I understand about not wanting to be a "mean" dad. I have had to face my daughter who is now 20 (had her late in life, I was 47 when she was born) and she was told by me to face her boss or co-workers for any issues at work causing her concern. She said that is hard and wanted to text. But I explained to her the years I have at being a Human Resource Manager taught me one thing. It is always better to confront face to face, no matter how uncomfortable, and watch the expressions and reactions of the person you are talking to. Texting someone with not good news is just a lack of fortitude to be an adult.

    Giving your daughter your thoughts would have been valuable to her. We are not judging, we are supposed to teach.

    Ruben Figueroa
    aka Zazz
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Nightfox on Mon Mar 11 13:47:09 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Vk3jed on Mon Mar 11 2019 12:42 pm

    It's interesting that there have been more and more rules/laws against using phones in certain situations in recent years. I'll admit I sometimes like being able to check news and social media on a smartphone whlie I'm waiting for something and wouldn't really have anything else to do anyway,

    I do that as well, lately I've tried being mindful, being bored, letting my mind wander in situations like that. To have an opportunity to clear your mind, focus on your breathing, and clear your mind is refreshing.

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Nightfox on Mon Mar 11 13:59:36 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 2019 01:12 pm

    I think there are countries with much higher rates of HIV and other STDs than other countries though.. Makes me wonder why that is, if people in some countries tend to use protection or practice abstinance more than other countries.

    Check out the CIA World Book. Some of the countries in Africa have adult HIV rates in the high 20s.

    Rank Order Listing for the HIV/AIDS - adult prevalence rate field

    1 SWATINI 27.40 2017 est.
    2 LESOTHO 23.80 2017 est.
    3 BOTSWANA 22.80 2017 est.
    4 SOUTH AFRICA 18.80 2017 est.
    5 ZIMBABWE 13.30 2017 est.

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 15:51:08 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Mon Mar 11 2019 01:47 pm

    admit I sometimes like being able to check news and social media on
    a smartphone whlie I'm waiting for something and wouldn't really
    have anything else to do anyway,

    I do that as well, lately I've tried being mindful, being bored, letting my mind wander in situations like that. To have an opportunity to clear your mind, focus on your breathing, and clear your mind is refreshing.

    Yes, I think it's good to clear your mind. Also to take a moment to be in the moment, focus on what's going on around you.

    Nightfox

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  • From Jagossel@VERT/DISCREAL to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 08:15:00 2019
    Nightfox, to poindexter FORTRAN...

    I've taught my son that the people who make the choices are often from a different generation. They'll expect people who can leave clear, concise voice mail messages. People that have a voicemail greeting in their voice. People who expect an email instead of a text - and emails are spell and grammar checked.

    It seems that people don't spell-check or grammar-check their writing
    as often as they used to. I've been seeing more and more
    spelling/grammar errors even in print in magazines, on signs, etc..
    Often there are things like using an apostrophe for a plural, and
    lately I've been seeing a lot of instances where people combine 2 words when they shouldn't. I saw a page online that said "It's time to
    kickass and chew bubblegum, and I'm all out of gum." The single word "kickass" has a bit of a different meaning than the 2 separate words
    "kick ass". Similarly, I've seen people say something like "I need to setup a new computer" ("setup" and "set up" mean different things).
    I've also seen web sites that would either say "log into our site" or "login to our site".

    I am wondering if there are certain minor rules that just isn't being taught any more. I recently learned one minor rule as to when to use a dash between words and when not to (same goes to combining two words into one): dashing
    or combining words for their noun versions, and separating words for verb versions. I was never taught this school, but I remember them drilling
    the difference between "you're" and "your"; "it's" and "its"; "they're", "there", and "their"; and "two", "too", and "to".

    I'm a bad speller too, and I have always struggled with some of the minor details of spelling. I try to avoid words that I know I cannot spell and
    use a similar word that I can spell. I am very dependent on spell-checkers.

    That said, I have noticed a corelation between the Internet's ever growing popularity (with the depenence on it) with the number of noticible obvious errors growing. At this point, I thunk it's obvious there are multiple
    factors that play into this.

    -jag
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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Jagossel on Tue Mar 12 09:06:59 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Jagossel to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 2019 08:15 am

    That said, I have noticed a corelation between the Internet's ever growing popularity (with the depenence on it) with the number of noticible obvious errors growing. At this point, I thunk it's obvious there are multiple factors that play into this.

    That's probably true. One issue is probably that people see examples of bad spelling/grammar and learn that and think it's correct.

    Nightfox

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 13:27:30 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Jagossel on Tue Mar 12 2019 09:06 am

    That's probably true. One issue is probably that people see examples of bad spelling/grammar and learn that and think it's correct.

    Wa La!

    :)

    I think it's interesting seeing phonetic misspellings taking over. I had a co-worker who ended his emails with

    Chow,

    (his name)

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to poindexter FORTRAN on Tue Mar 12 15:46:46 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 2019 01:27 pm

    I think it's interesting seeing phonetic misspellings taking over. I had a co-worker who ended his emails with

    Chow,

    (his name)

    Yeah, I've seen those too, and sometimes when I read those I don't even know at first what word they actually meant.

    When I was a kid, I actually thought it was "chow" and thought, why would someone want to say "chow" in place of goodbye? :P

    One time I saw someone who had written "half to" instead of "have to".

    One time I heard someone say "prima donna", but it was before I was familiar with that term and I thought they were saying "pre-Madonna".

    One thing that bugs me is when people write "should of" instead of "should have", and similar ("could of", etc.).

    Nightfox

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Tue Mar 12 19:08:00 2019
    Seeing kids posting unrealistic portrayals of their life and relying on a >stream of Likes to reinforce your sense of self is troubling. Online bullying

    Back a few months ago, when ingesting Tide Pods and doing other stupid
    things was popular among some kids, a psychologist wrote an article about
    why kids were doing this. The theory is that the kids feel that being
    famous is more important to kids now... and that being online and getting
    likes makes them feel famous.

    So they do idiotic things in videos to get attention and be "famous."

    Of course, they don't think it through and realize that you don't get to
    enjoy your fame if you are dead, brain damaged, or severely deformed by whatever thing it is you did.

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to HUSTLER on Tue Mar 12 19:31:00 2019
    I remember when all TV stations closed for the night around midnight. MTV

    I remember when they went off the air the station would play the national anthem with a waving flag.

    Here some of the PBS and Independents might went off the air as early as
    11PM. Other stayed on until 1 or 2 AM, but they all signed off with the National Anthem. Also, about an hour before they'd come back on air, there would be a color test pattern of some sort. Some of those had a constant
    tone that accompanied them.

    I remember getting up early as a kid on a Saturday and seeing that test
    pattern and waiting for it to go off so that I could watch cartoons. I was
    a little older and staying up late on Friday and Saturday when I would see
    the sign-off. :)

    That was 35-40 years ago. :) Some of the local stations may still sign off for a while overnight. I think most of them run infomercials all night,
    after the regular programming ends.

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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Dumas Walker on Tue Mar 12 19:10:59 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:08 pm

    things was popular among some kids, a psychologist wrote an article about why kids were doing this. The theory is that the kids feel that being famous is more important to kids now... and that being online and getting likes makes them feel famous.

    I was down in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico for our yearly vacation and went to see a stand-up comedian. He made a very similar statement. He stated that nowadays we all seem to think we are the star of our own reality show and act upon that because we all want to be "stars".

    I still believe in what I was taught as a young child: Never take credit, but always give credit.


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  • From Dmxrob@VERT/STLWEST to Dumas Walker on Tue Mar 12 19:12:48 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to HUSTLER on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:31 pm

    Here some of the PBS and Independents might went off the air as early as 11PM. Other stayed on until 1 or 2 AM, but they all signed off with the National Anthem. Also, about an hour before they'd come back on air, there would be a color test pattern of some sort. Some of those had a constant tone that accompanied them.

    Same here in St. Louis. All the networks went off the air (ABC, CBS, NBC).
    PBS would sign off around 1AM and then our two independents would just air very, very, very old movies/shows all night.

    Sometimes, if you were a geek (like me) up until all hours of the night BBSing (only time of day you could get through without a busy signal!) you could catch a test transmission on the network channels. That was kind of geeky-fun.


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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Hustler on Tue Mar 12 19:30:00 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to MRO on Mon Mar 11 2019 01:03 am

    that being said, i have been having unprotected sex with strippers, but i think i have an immunity to the aids virus.

    Male or female strippers? Or both? I'm SO Confused!


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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Hustler on Tue Mar 12 19:33:19 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Hustler to Dmxrob on Mon Mar 11 2019 06:32 pm

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to Hustler on Mon Mar 11 2019 12:08 pm

    With all the STD's and AIDS still being a very real thing, it is scary to think people are so promiscuous nowadays.

    I dunno. STD's and AIDS never stopped me from behaving like a dog in heat. Especially after a few beers at the "club" dancing with all them babes. ;-)



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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 19:35:08 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to MRO on Mon Mar 11 2019 12:55 pm

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Hustler on Sun Mar 10 2019 07:13 pm

    i think a lot of these people are confused and crazy. on the dating sites i think there's a lot of women who are serial daters. they want a free meal and a sugar daddy. the guys are usually in relationships and cheating. it's basically prostitution.

    How do you know this? From experience, or have you taken a survey or something?


    from personal experience and talking to women about it. my friends had the same experiences. your wife was probably getting double stuffed.
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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 19:36:04 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Mar 11 2019 01:09 pm

    often as they used to. I've been seeing more and more spelling/grammar errors even in print in magazines, on signs, etc.. Often there are things like using an apostrophe for a plural, and lately I've been seeing a lot of instances where people combine 2 words when they shouldn't. I saw a page online that said "It's time to kickass and chew bubblegum, and I'm all out of gum." The single word "kickass" has a bit of a different meaning than the 2 separate words "kick ass". Similarly, I've seen people say something like "I need to setup a new computer" ("setup" and "set up" mean different things). I've also seen web sites that would either say "log into our site" or "login to our site".


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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to MRO on Tue Mar 12 20:48:25 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:36 pm

    this posting brought to you by autism.

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.

    Nightfox

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Dumas Walker on Tue Mar 12 21:11:43 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to HUSTLER on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:31 pm

    I remember getting up early as a kid on a Saturday and seeing that test pattern and waiting for it to go off so that I could watch cartoons.

    I don't think my kids can fathom a life without 24/7 kids cable channels.

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to DMXROB on Wed Mar 13 19:12:00 2019
    I still believe in what I was taught as a young child: Never take credit, but >always give credit.

    That is a good one. I have heard some coaches that blame themselves (and
    the coaching staff) for losses but credit the whole team for wins. They
    are usually the more successful ones.

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Wed Mar 13 19:00:00 2019
    I remember getting up early as a kid on a Saturday and seeing that test pattern and waiting for it to go off so that I could watch cartoons.

    I don't think my kids can fathom a life without 24/7 kids cable channels.

    I can remember coming home from school and watching kids shows on the local Independet station, too. But no all day kids shows. I can remember that
    we knew Saturday cartoon time was over when the local wrestling show came
    on at Noon. :D

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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 19:22:53 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Jagossel on Tue Mar 12 2019 09:06 am

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Jagossel to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 2019 08:15 am

    That said, I have noticed a corelation between the Internet's ever growing popularity (with the depenence on it) with the number of noticible obvious errors growing. At this point, I thunk it's obvious there are multiple factors that play into this.

    That's probably true. One issue is probably that people see examples of bad spelling/grammar and learn that and think it's correct.

    Nightfox


    there's also casual communication and formal communication. some people prefer to be strict in both, me not so much.

    the only thing that pisses me off when people go nuts with abbreviations that usually only THEY know the meaning to.
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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Dmxrob on Wed Mar 13 19:27:22 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to Dumas Walker on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:10 pm

    I was down in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico for our yearly vacation and went to see a stand-up comedian. He made a very similar statement. He stated that nowadays we all seem to think we are the star of our own reality show and act upon that because we all want to be "stars".



    in my city we had a drug dealer who was running from the police, and he was spraying bullets at houses and cars and the police killed him.

    in the fb news posting i said i'm glad a guy like that with multiple felonies is dead.

    some dickwad kid said i'm a racist and he's going to get me fired from my job. then he posts my pic on his page on fb and i look into him a bit further and he's some loser that doesnt have a job and just makes youtube videos.

    so i ripped on him and his idiot friends and challenged him to a fight at mcdonalds.
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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Dmxrob on Wed Mar 13 19:28:18 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dmxrob to Dumas Walker on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:12 pm

    Same here in St. Louis. All the networks went off the air (ABC, CBS, NBC). PBS would sign off around 1AM and then our two independents would just air very, very, very old movies/shows all night.



    on my pbs channel late at night they had some soap opera with romans and there was nudity and adult situations. i was like wtf is this doing here.
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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 19:28:48 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to MRO on Tue Mar 12 2019 08:48 pm

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Nightfox on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:36 pm

    this posting brought to you by autism.

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.


    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.
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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to poindexter FORTRAN on Wed Mar 13 19:29:33 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Dumas Walker on Tue Mar 12 2019 09:11 pm

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to HUSTLER on Tue Mar 12 2019 07:31 pm

    I remember getting up early as a kid on a Saturday and seeing that test pattern and waiting for it to go off so that I could watch cartoons.

    I don't think my kids can fathom a life without 24/7 kids cable channels.



    yeah really. if i didnt wake up early i didnt get to watch spiderman that week. i was sol.
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Dumas Walker on Wed Mar 13 18:16:53 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Wed Mar 13 2019 07:00 pm

    Independet station, too. But no all day kids shows. I can remember that
    we knew Saturday cartoon time was over when the local wrestling show came on at Noon. :D

    On an unrelated note, who misses UHF TV? Local, low power, low-budget TV rocked. No network programming, so each station was different.

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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 14:16:00 2019
    On 03-11-19 12:42, Nightfox wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    It's interesting that there have been more and more rules/laws against using phones in certain situations in recent years. I'll admit I sometimes like being able to check news and social media on a
    smartphone whlie I'm waiting for something and wouldn't really have anything else to do anyway, but it can be easy to let it creep in and
    want to check them probably more often than you really need to.

    In short, a lot of people are addicted to their devices. :( While I am active on social media, I can also put it down when I need to, to focus on other things.

    This morning on the news, I even heard something about someone noticing people checking their phones while riding on skateboards.. Things like driving, walking, etc. need your attention and you really can't take
    your concentration off of those kinds of things.

    Agree. Even though I have a better ability than average to do some of these things, I am less likely to do it, because I'm also more aware of the risks, because I'm more aware of how much attention using the phone takes up. So walking - in limited conditions (no people around and not negotiating high risk areas like roads), driving - nope, not worth the risk. Cycling, nope. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 14:17:00 2019
    On 03-11-19 12:58, Nightfox wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I don't remember seeing that - When I was a kid, sometimes I used to
    stay up fairly late during summer vacations and such, and it seems

    Yeah it used to be in the TV guide listed as "Close", around 12:30AM every night, and the stations would reopen around 5:30AM. :)

    there was something always on TV. But it's interesting that we have increasingly gone to a 24-hour society, probably since more and more people these days have jobs where they'd have to work an evening or
    night shift. Globalism and interacting with people all over the world probably has something to do with that.

    All of the above, I'd say. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 21:19:00 2019
    On 03-11-19 13:12, Nightfox wrote to Hustler <=-

    I think there are countries with much higher rates of HIV and other
    STDs than other countries though.. Makes me wonder why that is, if
    people in some countries tend to use protection or practice abstinance more than other countries.

    In Australia, the rate of HIV infection has always been quite low. The community itself is a major reason. AIDS activists and volunteers here were successfu in implementing harm minimisation and engaging government. Government saw this as a public health issue and responded accordingly. At the time, the main demographics were gay men, injecting drug users and sex workers.
    The focus was on education and prevention, so education and other means to minimise the risk of transmission were used - handing out condoms and making fresh needles available, as well as safe means to dispose of used ones through needle exchanges and other means.

    The Australian response to HIV/AIDS is now held up as one of the best in the world.

    More information:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV/AIDS_in_Australia

    https://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-09-15/aids-volunteers-were-the-unsung-heroes-of-australias-response/8949978

    And a documentary - "Rampant".

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rAH_auNWdpQ (part 1 - the rest can be easily found from there).

    So in summary, it all depends on how the government and community of a country respond to such a crisis, as to what the outcome is.


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 21:24:00 2019
    On 03-11-19 13:18, Nightfox wrote to Hawkeye <=-

    Why? Easy way of communication with retro guys all over the world. But also my family is communicating via facebook messenger or whatsapp.

    But I also use forums, website and this. I guess I'm a junkie, want to try and use all if it helps me in any way to maintain contact.

    Yeah, I think it's mainly about keeping in contact with people, more so than the technology itself.

    I'm the same, though one reason I have so many different ways of communicating is because people are so spread out these days. :)

    I use Facebook to keep in touch with some people, but I also like
    Facebook as basically a news feed. I've been able to keep up on a lot
    of news stories from news organizations posting articles on Facebook,

    I find Facebook useful for communicating with people, communicating in groups - bit like BBS echos, and as you say, useful for news as well.

    and even friends sharing news articles from whatever sources they
    follow. Also if you like visiting certain restaurants or stores on a regular basis, they usually have a presence on Facebook that you can follow. For a while, there was a restaurant I liked to visit that
    would have a weekly drawing for a free meal (up to $25) on Facebook. I also found out via Facebook about a local guitar shop that moved to a different location. I know there are other places to find that kind of information, but I suppose Facebook can make it easy by being one place where you can follow multiple businesses.

    Another good use too. :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to poindexter FORTRAN on Wed Mar 13 21:27:00 2019
    On 03-11-19 13:47, poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Nightfox <=-

    I do that as well, lately I've tried being mindful, being bored,
    letting my mind wander in situations like that. To have an opportunity
    to clear your mind, focus on your breathing, and clear your mind is refreshing.

    That's good too. I do that as part of my yoga. Can really clear the head.


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Dmxrob on Thu Mar 14 22:02:00 2019
    On 03-12-19 19:12, Dmxrob wrote to Dumas Walker <=-

    Sometimes, if you were a geek (like me) up until all hours of the night BBSing (only time of day you could get through without a busy signal!)
    you could catch a test transmission on the network channels. That was kind of geeky-fun.

    Test patterns were cool. :)


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Vk3jed on Thu Mar 14 06:38:00 2019
    Vk3jed wrote to Nightfox <=-

    In short, a lot of people are addicted to their devices. :( While I am active on social media, I can also put it down when I need to, to focus
    on other things.

    I think having a day away from devices is a good idea. I used to put my SIM card into an old Nokia phone every couple of months to see how often I was tempted to look at social media on my phone.

    Now, I have the kindle app on my phone. If I'm that bored of being bored, I read a book.

    This morning on the news, I even heard something about someone noticing people checking their phones while riding on skateboards.. Things like driving, walking, etc. need your attention and you really can't take
    your concentration off of those kinds of things.

    I worked at a large internet company spread out over 8 buildings. Oddly,
    the parking lots and buildings didn't have a lot of pedestrian paths, so
    people would walk in the traffic lanes. Many times I'd have someone almost *walk* into my car while reading an email; I'm sure he or she could claim
    that I hit them. Made me want a dash cam.

    That's a toxic culture -- being tied to your email/chat/slack 24/7 and
    feeling compelled to respond to everything immediately. With no sense of relative urgency, everything is an emergency that requires dropping
    everything.

    But, that's a topic for a different thread.






    Agree. Even though I have a better ability than average to do some of these things, I am less likely to do it, because I'm also more aware of the risks, because I'm more aware of how much attention using the phone takes up. So walking - in limited conditions (no people around and not negotiating high risk areas like roads), driving - nope, not worth the risk. Cycling, nope. :)


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Vk3jed on Thu Mar 14 06:39:00 2019
    Vk3jed wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    I do that as well, lately I've tried being mindful, being bored,
    letting my mind wander in situations like that. To have an opportunity
    to clear your mind, focus on your breathing, and clear your mind is refreshing.

    That's good too. I do that as part of my yoga. Can really clear the head.

    I listed "clear your mind" twice. Maybe I do need to try it again. :)



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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to MRO on Thu Mar 14 09:16:19 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 2019 07:28 pm

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    Should I give a crap?

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Vk3jed on Thu Mar 14 09:21:15 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 2019 09:24 pm

    I'm the same, though one reason I have so many different ways of communicating is because people are so spread out these days. :)

    Yeah, I tend to use the social network(s) that are used by other people I know. One of the reasons I don't use Twitter is because not very many people I know use Twitter, so there isn't really anyone I'm interested in following on Twitter. Also, its limited post size..

    Nightfox

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to MRO on Thu Mar 14 09:23:45 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 2019 07:28 pm

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    What would you prefer? Jackass? Fucknut? Something else?

    Nightfox

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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Nightfox on Thu Mar 14 16:28:16 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to MRO on Thu Mar 14 2019 09:23 am

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 2019 07:28 pm

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    What would you prefer? Jackass? Fucknut? Something else?


    oh boy you came back for a second one.
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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Thu Mar 14 18:47:00 2019
    Independet station, too. But no all day kids shows. I can remember that we knew Saturday cartoon time was over when the local wrestling show came on at Noon. :D

    On an unrelated note, who misses UHF TV? Local, low power, low-budget TV rocked. No network programming, so each station was different.

    Actually that is sort of related. Where I grew up, one of the big three networks was on UHF, but the other locals on UHF were either PBS or
    Independent (at least, until the creation of the FOX network, which was
    about the time I started college).

    I actually do miss it. The weird thing about it... back during the analog
    TV days, your VHF stations seemed to be more powerful and easier to pull in than UHF. However, during the digital roll-out, when stations were still broadcasting on VHF for analog and had their digital signals on UHF... I
    don't think most people where aware of that.

    Anyway, by then I had moved somewhere that did not have local TV. During
    the digital roll-out, and before, I was able to pull a lot of stations on antenna. When it was all analog, I was able to get enough stations.
    When the digital rollout started, I had the converter box and, since most all of the locals in the two nearest cities were broadcasting digital on UHF (but remapping to their actual station number) I was pulling in nearly two of
    every network. I was even getting a couple of stations from cities that
    are not considered local market and that I had never received before.

    Once analog was completely phased out, the digital stations moved back to
    their VHF slots and I was no longer able to receive any terestreial TV here.

    In other words, it almost seems like the UHF digital is stronger than the
    VHF. Also, since it is digital, where I could watch a station that had
    some "snow," the picture and sound now either come in good or not at all... there is no "snowy" middle ground.

    I think that is what I miss about UHF (and VHF) the most... it was still watchable even when the signal was not perfect.

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Dumas Walker on Thu Mar 14 17:08:12 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Thu Mar 14 2019 06:47 pm

    In other words, it almost seems like the UHF digital is stronger than the VHF. Also, since it is digital, where I could watch a station that had some "snow," the picture and sound now either come in good or not at all... there is no "snowy" middle ground.

    I think that is what I miss about UHF (and VHF) the most... it was still watchable even when the signal was not perfect.

    That's one of the downsides about digital broadcast TV. Every so often, one of the stations I like to watch seems to have a weak signal sometimes and due to the digital nature, that causes the picture to get scrambled or lost altogether so much that the channel is basically unwatchable. I guess one of the good things about using a premium TV package like cable or something is having less of those issues, but I still don't really want to pay a subscription for a premium TV package.

    On the flip side though, when the signal is good, the picture and audio quality for digital channels is great. I think it's interesting that they can broadcast a digital TV signal over the air. The thing is, I think broadcast digital signals are usually 720p, and I'm not sure if broadcast has enough bandwidth to support a resolution higher than that. Most TVs these days are 1080 or 4K, so it has to scale the image up (though it still looks pretty good).

    Nightfox

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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to MRO on Thu Mar 14 22:12:00 2019
    MRO wrote to Nightfox <=-

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    What would you prefer? Jackass? Fucknut? Something else?

    oh boy you came back for a second one.
    *autistic screeching*

    Are you autistic?

    That would explain some things.



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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 15 11:20:52 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dan Clough to MRO on Thu Mar 14 2019 10:12 pm

    What would you prefer? Jackass? Fucknut? Something else?

    oh boy you came back for a second one.
    *autistic screeching*

    Are you autistic?

    That would explain some things.



    no, random nobody, i am not autistic.
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  • From Digital Man@VERT to Nightfox on Fri Mar 15 16:48:11 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to MRO on Thu Mar 14 2019 09:16 am

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Nightfox on Wed Mar 13 2019 07:28 pm

    Often I just ignore your asshattery, but sometimes I find it humorous.

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    Should I give a crap?

    people stopped saying "give a crap" 20 years ago.
    <smirk>

    digital man

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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to MRO on Fri Mar 15 18:18:00 2019
    MRO wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    What would you prefer? Jackass? Fucknut? Something else?

    oh boy you came back for a second one.
    *autistic screeching*

    Are you autistic?
    That would explain some things.

    no, random nobody, i am not autistic.

    Well OK then, nobody. Your behavior remains unexplained.



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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Dan Clough on Fri Mar 15 23:12:34 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dan Clough to MRO on Fri Mar 15 2019 06:18 pm

    That would explain some things.

    no, random nobody, i am not autistic.

    Well OK then, nobody. Your behavior remains unexplained.


    i'm not a nobody. that's YOU
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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Digital Man on Fri Mar 15 22:05:21 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Digital Man to Nightfox on Fri Mar 15 2019 04:48 pm

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    Should I give a crap?

    people stopped saying "give a crap" 20 years ago.
    <smirk>

    Seriously? :P

    Nightfox

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  • From Dan Clough@VERT/PALANT to MRO on Sat Mar 16 12:06:00 2019
    MRO wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    That would explain some things.

    no, random nobody, i am not autistic.

    Well OK then, nobody. Your behavior remains unexplained.

    i'm not a nobody. that's YOU

    You ARE a nobody, even if you don't know it.

    And you might be autistic.



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  • From Digital Man@VERT to Nightfox on Sat Mar 16 15:14:42 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Nightfox to Digital Man on Fri Mar 15 2019 10:05 pm

    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Digital Man to Nightfox on Fri Mar 15 2019 04:48 pm

    people stopped saying asshat 10 years ago.

    Should I give a crap?

    people stopped saying "give a crap" 20 years ago.
    <smirk>

    Seriously? :P

    No. :-P

    digital man

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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to poindexter FORTRAN on Sun Mar 17 10:58:00 2019
    On 03-14-19 06:38, poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I think having a day away from devices is a good idea. I used to put my SIM card into an old Nokia phone every couple of months to see how
    often I was tempted to look at social media on my phone.

    I have sport for that. Kinda hard to look at a phone while running around a track! :D

    Now, I have the kindle app on my phone. If I'm that bored of being
    bored, I read a book.

    I have a real Kindle for that - easier to read in the sun and a better font size than on the phone. :)

    I worked at a large internet company spread out over 8 buildings.
    Oddly, the parking lots and buildings didn't have a lot of pedestrian paths, so people would walk in the traffic lanes. Many times I'd have someone almost *walk* into my car while reading an email; I'm sure he
    or she could claim that I hit them. Made me want a dash cam.

    Hmm, think you would want a dash cam there. Reading and walking is harder than it seems, and only those who have really good peripheral vision and the ability to respond to it will have any chance of doing it safely.

    That's a toxic culture -- being tied to your email/chat/slack 24/7 and feeling compelled to respond to everything immediately. With no sense
    of relative urgency, everything is an emergency that requires dropping everything.

    Yeah I prioritise on skimming. Deal with urgent, and the rest, it can wait. If I catch the notification, that decision can even be made without further checking. :)

    But, that's a topic for a different thread.

    :)


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to poindexter FORTRAN on Sun Mar 17 10:59:00 2019
    On 03-14-19 06:39, poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I listed "clear your mind" twice. Maybe I do need to try it again. :)

    Maybe. :D


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  • From Vk3jed@VERT/FREEWAY to Nightfox on Sun Mar 17 11:03:00 2019
    On 03-14-19 09:21, Nightfox wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    Yeah, I tend to use the social network(s) that are used by other people
    I know. One of the reasons I don't use Twitter is because not very many people I know use Twitter, so there isn't really anyone I'm interested
    in following on Twitter. Also, its limited post size..

    I don't use Twitter, I just find it's a mass of noise and not much usefully accessible content.


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Vk3jed on Sat Mar 16 21:37:15 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Vk3jed to poindexter FORTRAN on Sun Mar 17 2019 10:58 am

    I have a real Kindle for that - easier to read in the sun and a better font size than on the phone. :)

    When my dad passed away, I "inherited" his Kindle - it's nice on those disconnect days to go somewhere and read without distractions. I've gotten spoiled by the font sizes on Kindle; contrast with used old SF paperbacks and the readability isn't even in the same league.

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to MRO on Sun Mar 17 14:30:00 2019
    on my pbs channel late at night they had some soap opera with romans and there >was nudity and adult situations. i was like wtf is this doing here.

    Back in the 1970's or 1980's, there was something like that on the nearby
    PBS stations also. Maybe not the same one, but it had the nudity and adult situations.

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to NIGHTFOX on Sun Mar 17 14:52:00 2019
    That's one of the downsides about digital broadcast TV. Every so often, one of
    the stations I like to watch seems to have a weak signal sometimes and due to >the digital nature, that causes the picture to get scrambled or lost altogether
    so much that the channel is basically unwatchable. I guess one of the good >things about using a premium TV package like cable or something is having less >of those issues, but I still don't really want to pay a subscription for a >premium TV package.

    Even with cable, you run into issues when the cable company runs into a
    "weak signal" from wherever they are getting it from. It will still
    pixelate and/or stop being watchable all together.

    I would imagine that the satellite services are the same.

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  • From MRO@VERT/BBSESINF to Dan Clough on Sun Mar 17 20:45:52 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dan Clough to MRO on Sat Mar 16 2019 12:06 pm

    MRO wrote to Dan Clough <=-

    That would explain some things.

    no, random nobody, i am not autistic.

    Well OK then, nobody. Your behavior remains unexplained.

    i'm not a nobody. that's YOU

    You ARE a nobody, even if you don't know it.

    WRONG.
    And you might be autistic.

    nope, been tested.
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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@VERT/REALITY to Dumas Walker on Sun Mar 17 19:08:01 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to MRO on Sun Mar 17 2019 02:30 pm

    Back in the 1970's or 1980's, there was something like that on the nearby PBS stations also. Maybe not the same one, but it had the nudity and adult situations.

    Ok, teenagers watching the porn channels on weekend nights. Discuss.

    The first 5 minutes or so would be in the clear, so you'd see the plumber/cable guy knocking on the door, then the scrambling would hit.

    "Was that a boob?"

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  • From Nightfox@VERT/DIGDIST to Dumas Walker on Mon Mar 18 08:15:14 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Dumas Walker to NIGHTFOX on Sun Mar 17 2019 02:52 pm

    Even with cable, you run into issues when the cable company runs into a "weak signal" from wherever they are getting it from. It will still pixelate and/or stop being watchable all together.

    I thought cable companies got their TV show recordings from fairly reliable sources. But for local channels, I suppose they have to get them from somewhere "live" and perhaps that is an antenna somewhere..

    I would imagine that the satellite services are the same.

    Yeah, I think satellite services are a bit worse because things like cloudy weather and a misaligned satellite dish can affect the service.

    Nightfox

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  • From DaiTengu@VERT/ENSEMBLE to MRO on Mon Mar 18 18:15:49 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: MRO to Dan Clough on Sun Mar 17 2019 08:45 pm

    You ARE a nobody, even if you don't know it.

    WRONG.

    This right here is why kids these days think they're special and unique, because the generations before them thought they were special and unique, but everyone else wasn't special and unique.

    You're nobody. I'm nobody. We're all nobodies.

    And you might be autistic.

    nope, been tested.

    You failed that test.

    I really want to hear the story on why someone, be it you or someone you know, felt you actually needed to be tested for autism.

    DaiTengu

    ... Modesty is a vastly overrated virtue.

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to POINDEXTER FORTRAN on Mon Mar 18 19:09:00 2019
    Ok, teenagers watching the porn channels on weekend nights. Discuss.

    The first 5 minutes or so would be in the clear, so you'd see the plumber/cabl
    guy knocking on the door, then the scrambling would hit.

    "Was that a boob?"

    We did not have cable when I was a teen. :(

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to NIGHTFOX on Mon Mar 18 19:19:00 2019
    I thought cable companies got their TV show recordings from fairly reliable sources. But for local channels, I suppose they have to get them from somewhere "live" and perhaps that is an antenna somewhere..

    While I see it mostly on "localish" stations, I have noticed it a lot on
    Comedy Central and a couple of the other cable-only networks. It used to happen on TBS a lot but I have not watched it as much lately.

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  • From John Guillory@VERT/MAINLINE to Digital Man on Sun Mar 24 02:12:43 2019
    Re: Re: Social Media mess
    By: Digital Man to Nightfox on Fri Mar 15 2019 04:48 pm

    Should I give a crap?
    people stopped saying "give a crap" 20 years ago.
    Right, now they just say Give a Hillary Clinton, or Oh Hillary Clinton!
    It's politically correct!

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  • From Dumas Walker@VERT/CAPCITY2 to JOHN GUILLORY on Sun Mar 24 09:40:00 2019
    Should I give a crap?
    people stopped saying "give a crap" 20 years ago.
    Right, now they just say Give a Hillary Clinton, or Oh Hillary Clinton!
    It's politically correct!

    LOL, thanks! :D

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